I rarely ask for help. I had 2.5 hours of sleep last night. Toby's ears cleared up but 2 days ago he started a cough. Last night was a rough one for him. I've spent most of the night taking care of him. It's what I do- it's who I am. Never once did I nudge my husband to take over. Not that Matt isn't capable, but it's who I am. I take care of people.
The thing is, sometimes I need to be taken care of too. I usually don't ask or I don't know how to ask or people think I don't want to be asked. I just hope someone asks before I get too worn out and angry.
Change is real, and this type of change you can't do alone. Are you well? Do you want to get well? What do you need to change in your life? Stop allowing it to be there. So often people say, "but you don't understand. I can't do that, I'm not like you." Really? Because it seems to me we are all more alike than different.
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